Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.

You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. We found each other in the cosmos, and that was wonderful.“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. That is so much more important than the idea I will see him someday. The way he treated me and the way I treated him, the way we took care of each other and our family, while he lived. That is something which sustains me and it’s much more meaningful.

That we could be together for twenty years. That we could find each other, as Carl wrote so beautifully in Cosmos, you know, in the vastness of space and the immensity of time. That pure chance could be so generous and so kind. Every single moment that we were alive and we were together was miraculous-not miraculous in the sense of inexplicable or supernatural. We never trivialized the meaning of death by pretending it was anything other than a final parting. But, the great thing is that when we were together, for nearly twenty years, we lived with a vivid appreciation of how brief and precious life is. I don't ever expect to be reunited with Carl. The tragedy was that we knew we would never see each other again. Carl faced his death with unflagging courage and never sought refuge in illusions. They also frequently ask me if I think I will see him again. “When my husband died, because he was so famous and known for not being a believer, many people would come up to me-it still sometimes happens-and ask me if Carl changed at the end and converted to a belief in an afterlife.

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